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On the other side of the mess is healing, clarity, and the chance to build new habits that align with who you’re truly meant to be.
As someone who’s walked this journey myself, I know the freedom that comes when you start healing from the past, gain clarity about your purpose, and develop the tools to create lasting change. Together, we’ll move beyond the struggles and step into the woman God created you to be—full of confidence, passion, and purpose.

and help you grow

Life can feel like a tangled mess—old wounds, fears, and doubts piling up. But the mess isn’t the end of your story.

Together, we’ll dig into those hard places, unpack what’s been holding you back, and make sense of it all. Because once the mess is uncovered, it loses its power, and you can start building a life rooted in clarity, freedom, and purpose.

make sense of the mess

MY MISSION

I know what it’s like to feel trapped by limiting beliefs, fear, trauma, and people-pleasing—because I’m still walking this journey myself. There are days when those struggles try to creep back in, but through God’s grace, I’ve learned how to find freedom and keep growing into the woman He created me to be.

That’s why I’m so passionate about helping women like you. I understand the doubts, the overwhelm, and the desire to break free but not knowing where to start. Together, we can uncover the incredible woman God designed you to be, filled with passion, purpose, and power to step boldly into each day.

As a Spirit-led Mindset Coach, I combine faith-centered guidance with practical strategies to help you tackle what’s holding you back. I’m not here as someone who has it all together but as someone walking alongside you, cheering you on and helping you see the truth of who you are in Christ.

The road is often painful and muddy, but you are not alone - let’s take that first step together.

YOUR Kingdom growth BESTIE

I'M mélyssa (pronounced may-lisa)

HEY! NICE TO MEET You

Psst... yeah you!
you can achieve everything you want in life. i promise.

When I was just 5 years old, my world changed forever—I lost my mom. It was a loss that shaped my childhood in ways I didn’t fully understand at the time.

5 years old

The Early Loss

At 7, my dad remarried and had more kids, and I found myself struggling to fit in. The relationships within my family were rocky, and I often felt out of place.

7 years old

Struggling to belong

By the time I was 16, life had thrown more challenges my way. I experienced a traumatic event that left me feeling broken, ashamed, and deeply alone. I was depressed, struggled with an eating disorder and didn't want to be alive.

16 years old

Teenage trauma

In my late teens, I found myself in a pattern of toxic relationships. I was drawn to boyfriends who cheated and were emotionally abusive, which only deepened my feelings of unworthiness and low self-esteem.

17 years old+

toxic cycles

At 19, I faced one of the hardest moments of my life— an abortion. It was a decision I didn’t want to make, and it left me with overwhelming shame, guilt, a deep sense of loss.
I sank into a place of very low self-esteem. I couldn’t believe that God could love someone like me.

19 years old

A Heartbreaking Decision

Years later, I got engaged and began planning a wedding, believing I had finally found stability. But the engagement ended abruptly, shattering the future I thought I was building. It felt like everything I'd healed and built was falling apart, and I hit rock bottom.

24 years old

hitting rock bottom

But God wasn’t finished with me. In my brokenness, He reached out and showed me His love. SLOWLY, I began to see myself the way He sees me—loved, chosen, and redeemed.

25 years old

Journey Toward Healing

Now, I’m a coach with a mission to create a safe space for women to process their struggles. I'm here to help you uncover your identity in Christ and step boldly into your God-given purpose, because I know firsthand that no story is too messy for redemption.

current day

The Mission Today

THROUGH THE YEARS

look back

and now i want to help guide you through!

my life was transformed

purpose-driven individuals making impact

8. what inspires me the most?

International justice mission - bringing people out of slavery and human trafficking 

7. What organization or non-profit are you involved with?

friends, gilmore girls, swat, criminal minds

5. what shows do i watch all the time?

going for a hike, roadtrips, chilling on my couch watching some shows with FOOd, or hosting a game night with my favourite people

6. what do I love doing on my days off?

do i have to pick one? Currently galatians 1:15

4. what is my favourite bible verse?

buying more books when i have no space for them, no time to read them and have a bunch still to read...

3. what is a toxic trait of mine?

tacos, chilaquiles, indian food, all the seafood (except oysters... sorry can't do it)

2. what food am i obsessed with?

whistle... i don't wanna talk about it.

1. What is something I can't do that most people can?

here are some trivial things about me

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